baby! baby! the children of heidi klum & seal

this BEAUTIFUL intercultural family featured is that of supermodel, actress and businesswoman heidi klum and singer seal. heidi has a daughter, helene "leni" from a previous relationship w/an italian business tycoon; seal has since adopted leni. together, heidi and seal have 3 more children: 2-sons, johan,  henry and their most recent, a daughter, lou samuel. what a BEAUTIFUL family!!!

christian troy & michelle landau: nip/tuck

julian mcmahon, SUPER-HOT!! sanaa lathan, SMOKING HOTTTT!!! put them together in a love affair, it is SINGE-WORTHY, sexy television on the F/X television show, nip/tuck!!!

julian plays dr. christian troy, a successful plastic surgeon in a very successful practice, mcnamara/troy,  once co-owned with his best friend and business partner, dr. sean mcnamara. sanaa plays michelle landau, the wife of the uber-wealthy new owner of the clinic, burt landau, played by veteran actor larry hagman.

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this is around season four.....during this time, christian is dealing with an ex-girlfriend gina russo, w/whom he'd assumed he shared a child, only to find out the child is not only NOT his child, but an interracial {half black} little boy named wilbur. DESPITE this, christian assumes responsibility for and becomes the surrogate father to wilbur, whoms he calls his son and loves VERY deeply. fatherhood actually tames and settles down christian, although it doesnt change his promiscuous ways....UNTIL he meets michelle.

 

michelle begins an affair with the womanizing christian, who falls VERY hard and VERY deeply in love with her. from the beginning, sean NEVER trusted nor liked michelle; he thought she was not as she appeared. sean notices rather quickly that as soon as michelle enters the picture, strange happenings begin to ruin the practice. none of this remotely phases christian, who rejects seans dissent and fully embraces his relationship w/michelle.

part of what makes christian so attracted to michelle is that she is his female equivalent: they are each others own strong mirror personalities and he loves that about her SO MUCH SO, he abruptly abandons his past behavior and lifestyle for a life with michelle and his son wilbur. they become engaged and plan to move to los angeles and live together as man, wife and child, happily ever after. this all seemed VERY possible and HIGHLY likely. however, michelle does have her own emotional issues.....and sociopathic ways. it is michelle herself who actually kills her frail husband by refusing him medicine after a stroke.

despite knowing this, christian is still 100% FULLY committed to michelle; they are very forthcoming & hold no secrets from each other...or so christian thought....because its michelles OTHER bad deeds that ultimately kills their relationship.

sean uncovers and reveals that michelle was part of the scheme that ultimately brought down their practice and that was so atrocious {human organ smuggling, even through kidnap & murder; michelle did leave this evil scheme & ways behind to pursue her new life w/christian}; but once revealed, christian was completely and thoroughly disgusted with her and immediately ends it.

christian also ultimately loses custody of wilbur to his birth father and from there, it doesnt take christian long to resume his past behavior and wanton promiscuity.

what to do? ive been accused of EXCLUSION in my blog!

SOOO sorry i missed my post yesterday, but it wasnt in vain....i was out with my gurls and we got into a crazy discussion about my blog...see, im expanding on my blog because i want to make it more....life & lifestyle encompassing and not just about "bwwm swirling". 

now, of course bwwm coupling WILL continue to be my MAIN FOCUS and feature on this blog.

but therein lies the issue we were discussing: if my main focus is to encourage black female/white male couplings, to feature them in real life as well as in entertainment & pop culture and blog fiction/non-fics....if my encouragement are for those black women who were DENIED or dissuaded or degraded for choosing a non-bm partner OR for the black woman who's simply seeks to date/mate with white men ONLY because that is her choice...well then, this blog would only appeal to an est. 6% audience...thats IF i even reach that audience, being this is a brand new blog.

the other issue {per this discussion} was: why not include other ethnicities {like themselves, 1-asian, 1-latina, 2-white & moi} as well...my gurls pointed out to me that "they" were NOT being represented on my blog...and that being that this blog is about seeking {specifically} white men, why would i exclude OTHER ethnic women from this forum? 

well!! my answer to that was simple...they can make their dang OWN forum...lol { i know they already exist....but seriously}. i thought about it and i did appreciate their constructive criticism. there are many ethnic women who seek white men ONLY out of pure preference...this includes many races that are non-white {black, latin, greek, asian, arab, indian, native american indian, etc., etc...the list is HUGE}. 
 
soooooooo.....while im trying to perfect my blog here in its teeny infancy, should this blog {from here on out} represent women who PREFER white men...after all, this is about our choice AND our preference. but im not about to rename this blog {how to get a white man!} naawww.

so, give me some feedback...what do you think??

eye candy wish list: cristiano ronaldo

ummmmm.....there arent....enough descriptive words to properly.....identify such total hot FINE-ness {sic} such as this -- eye candy extraordinaire, international soccer{futbol} star cristiano ronaldo.

BEAUTIFUL olive skin, stunning....physique, smile, perfect......EVERYTHING.....

{whew}....where was i.....i....lost my thought.

wheres zoom-lens when ya need one!!












 you waiting for me, cristiano....i'll be right there!!!

could i add him to my holiday gift-wish list?

her own destiny: kelly rowland

this beautiful destinys child alum, kelly rowland, went to the uk a couple of years ago, underwent a visible transformation and hasnt looked back since; and i do NOT blame her {well, the boob job...not my style, but its all good, kelly, its all good, you look FABULOUS}!!!

the photo {left} was recently taken of kelly out and about w/some handsome white arm candy. i dont know who this good-looking gentleman is {he's obviously wealthy, judging by his clothing, mannerisms & jewelry}; i read he may be her manager...but even if so...or not, they are a nice looking couple...dont you think!

she was dating black men for several years and if i remember correctly, she was even briefly engaged to a black man, an athlete i think; however, now her dating choices have since been solidly WHITE men.

shes been spotted in miami frolicking, having fun and just enjoying her expanded options. for this, she has been teased, belittled, demeaned, degraded, {the trolls would insert any/many derogatory words here}, etc, etc, etc; and surprise, surprise, most if not ALL the loudest dissenters..are black males {who in the same statement spew their preference for non-bw AND their venomous hatred towards bw}..of course, name calling is their vice; but lets keep in mind, its only a distraction for us as black women to continue to place around ourselves,  that proverbial "chain" around our necks for those who wish to use that "chain" to control and suppress us, to mislead and misguide us to our own destruction and to "their" upliftment. they sure are scuttling to "their" own defense/survival though,  aren't they....like diseased rats coming out to the light to snatch our sunshine {our choices & options for success & happiness} away; no chance of that...some of us definitely "get it", so its to no avail ...if they {the trolls} are coming to "us" to spew their discontent, they are obviously too late; that chain is loose and discarded. AND we're NOT interested. we REFUSE to be held back, we REFUSE to be talked down.


so to this, i add...GO ON, MISS KELLY....show the world, you MAKE YOUR OWN DESTINY...and all the name calling in the world will not convince nor sway you nor those of us who NOW KNOW BETTER to re-place nor re-claim NOR restore that "chain" around OUR future nor OUR happiness!

the images are only highlighted here; i own nothing of this; no copyright intended.

yves gluant & xania: the pink panther {2006}

beyoncé knowles plays xania, the girlfriend of a famous soccer coach, yves gluant {played by action star jason statham}. yves comes down the stadium, wearing the pink panther diamond ring, and kisses xania, after whispering to her. after the game, yves dies with a poison dart in his neck and the pink panther missing from his hand. this on-screen love match lasted.....under three minutes! oh, well. 

this crime is being investigated by the lovable but clumsy-ridden inspector jacques clouseau {steve martin}. clouseau, who is ALSO a "love interest" for xania and could NEVER possibly consider her a suspect. in one scene, he adamantly protected her while she was being interrogated by his partner to: "stop brow-beating her, cant you see she's sexy"?. LOL. i LOVE that line! 


the images are from my personally owned-movie and only highlighted here; i own nothing of this; no copyright intended.

baby! baby! BEAUTIFUL children of mixed race!

 this BEAUTIFUL little girl is yet another one of Gods' beautiful creations...shes also a beautiful child of an interracial coupling....shes GORGEOUS.


my daughter has the same hair type as the little girl pictured, EXACTLY the same...which has now grown into extremely thick & long, very HIGH maintenance curly hair. she has a tender scalp and it takes at least an hour to comb/brush out her hair if its left out; so this must be styled...its not a choice, its a must! it has to stay in pigtails, a bun, MUST BE braided or in plaits....or it becomes tangled beyond reason and comb-defying explanation and inevitably, all {expletive} will break loose....it PAINS me when she cries and cries after an "entanglement"!  

so to help prevent hair-combing fear, i make sure to take care of her hair very often. i use natural conditioners and hair balm products to manage her hair, as well as a clarifying shampoo/conditioner to remove any buildup. as a result, her hair is very resilient, strong, thick and beautiful. im hoping and praying that she doesnt come home one day and its all cut off...i....would be in a coma; so, im helping her to manage this daunting task from this early age...and shes coming along quite well.  

besides, she {and everyone who sees it}....absolutely ADORES her hair. shes very proud of it and i dont think she'd ever part w/it.

im always on the lookout for products for her {and my} hair, so i'll definitely check out socialite dreams for some additional resources...you should too; shes got tons of great beauty tips & advice AND an awesome blog!!!